Hi ladies! So you clicked on me! We both are thinking sigh, here we go again - trying to find what we want in this messy, online world! Dont be discouraged. Ill lay it all out from my end now so you might want to put your reading glasses on! I consider myself very easy going, a great listener, spontaneous and flexible so i wanna treat this post as a reverse one. Maybe you are looking for specifics or maybe you have always wanted to post but didnt fully commit to it. This is more about what YOU want and not me. Im just seeing if we can meet in the middle. This could be anything! Neglected and want a fwb? Want to just go on an actual date? Specific kinks you want to try? Just chat and see where things take us? We ll figure it out!

Who i am: Single, Tall (6’0”), DDF, thick, bearded male who most likely will be able to toss ya around the bedroom. I work in nuclear safety 🤓and travel all over IL for it so distance doesnt mean much to me (prefer city/nw burbs)

I pride myself on being a raw, respectful, blunt individual. Firm believer that communication & effort needs to be prioritized. Team work makes the dream work!! Dom tendencies but very social, spontaneous and playful. If you cant dish sarcasm, banter and wittiness like we are playing ping pong - i dont want it!

Hobbies: reading, writing, art, cooking, watching sports/docs/thriller movies, lifting, holistic/wellness practices, stealing memes, random road trips, spontaneous acts, trying new coffee spots/restaurants.

Kinks: D/S, CNC, TPE. DDLG. Oral enthusiast. Anal/ass play - none of these are “must haves”. The most important thing to me is fun, flexibility and an open mind. Honestly, ill be more intrigued by what YOU enjoy.. im all ears…

Shoot me a PM if this intrigues you and please provide some info about yourself/whatcha looking for etc when you reach out. Exchanging pics/verification is a must. Very open to meeting prior (coffee/dinner etc)