I am a Dom, fit SWM in my late 30s who seeks the proper submissive toy for training and play. I have decided to try Reddit. This is not the normal avenue to which I put myself forth to summon the opposite sex. In this particular case though, it is likely the most appropriate (less scammers than BDSM sites). Thus, here is what I am looking for:

My submissive pet will be very open to what Daddy brings for her. In private you will be my personal toy, and be under my control. In public we will be a prim and proper pairing. In private I will purchase a vibrator to use on you, we will have a ball gag, blindfold, belts and restraints such as handcuffs. Ideas like a collar, leash and much more should not beyond the realm of our relationship. You should also be open to choking (my strong hands, rope, or my belt, all are strong) and spankings as I see fit. This could perhaps even turn into a live-in situation depending on schedules. DDLG is acceptable with the understanding that the BDSM aspects I expect will be omnipresent.

You will enjoy being a good girl and following through with what Daddy asks of you. I enjoy spending time with my younger lady in both public and private settings. You should enjoy this guidance and/or time together as well. If you have other kinks of your own, then by all means do share. I am seeking someone who either doesn't have experience or does not have much experience. I like a blank slate, an open canvas. My goal is to make you a better person who in the process will be very accommodating to my the needs associated with your SIR. When we go out you will feel very comfortable and protected by my side.

As for me, I am fit (gym/running 3-4 times a week), tall, white, and considered fashionable/good looking. I keep my intake of alcohol at a resonable level. I am seeking a submissive young lady who is not out every night. Our relationship may be to some degree public, but others may or may not know that you are my submissive. That aspect we would both be a tad more discreet about in most settings others. In other appropriate settings, that appropriate crowd may know, that in fact, yes you are my submissive.

You are in your early adult years likely 20-29 but perhaps a few years on either side of that range. You are prim and proper and are likely in college, grad school or your first job/role out of school. You have played by life's rules up until this point and it is going well. If still in school you likely go to Northwestern, UIC, Loyola, DePaul, Columbia College, Art Institute, University Of Chicago, or I suppose out of state (back in Chicago for summer?).

As my Submissive play thing we will enjoy the nicer aspects of the city together in public. Nice restaurants, lounges, concerts, Sofar Events, sporting events (Cubs, Sox, Bulls games?) would be on the agenda. In private you will be my personal little girl. I will train you, and you will enjoy learning more and more as you submit your body and will to me. A live in situation could be very possible, especially for a student or hard working young submissive who could really use the assistance, and most certainly enjoy the control and guidance.

I do not like to comment on myself too much, but I am well off financially (a millionaire by my 30s), and am also very well traveled for my age. I have lived in a number of large cities as well as overseas. Basically, I have experiences that you will find to be much more broad than most others you will meet in Chicago. I’ve lived in Manhattan and L.A. as well as large cities overseas.

I may come across confident, and that is because I am. The young sub I am seeking would only want such a Dom since she too has a lot going for herself. I have attained and possess the means to make this lifestyle (that perhaps you have been thinking of for a while) a reality.

I have a strong sexual drive, much like the zest I have in life and business. I am seeking someone who is going through the ropes and proper channels in their young life right now. Basically you are hitting all of the right notes for your age, but sometimes you just really just want to let go. I can give you that.

I am seeking someone in shape both mentally and physically. No drug abusers, no one over a size 8, and no one further than 60 miles from Chicago. I have high standards for those that I date, my standards for my next submissive are the same. Looks, intelligence, life experiences (or for someone in their early 20s plans to make some), and you ability to be enduring are all items is of the utmost importance to me.

I am open to White, Asian, Mixed or Hispanic. Again, prime age is 20-29 give or take a few years. At this time I am only seeking one submissive to play with and train. I simply do not have the time, or the patience, for more than one. That said, I do want someone who is keen. Very keen, this is not a situation where you should be coming to the edge of the pool just to dip your toe. Once I have found, established a rapport, and met in-person with the proper submissive, then I will most certainly take this advert down as my search will be finished. I have had this advert up before. That said, the fact remains I am very discerning. I am seeking something advantageously (for both parties) long term, hence why my search is so acute. You will enjoy your time in sub-space within my realm.

When I was out a tad more than a months ago at a newer place, I did see an attractive sub who happened to be black, or seemingly mixed. She wore a chain collar and dog tag bf wrapped the chain around her neck a few times over like jewelry. Clearly a leash would, could and in fact, does easily connect. Her Dom, who I assume was one of the two men she was with, had an impressive specimen. I am seeking someone of similar value. As to if we play much in public in the "scene", that can be a topic of discussion, and is not a prerequisite per say.

Message me with the subject "open canvas", it could be well worth your time. Not seeking endless messages. Simply a few to ensure the mutual interest and engagement. Our first encounter would be very vanilla. Likely a light bite, drinks, brunch or a coffee. I look forward to hearing from you...