Hey there. I'm a 29y/o man in the south suburbs. This has been a pretty big self-improvement year for me, so I'd love to cap it off by improving my relationship status as well.

About me: I'm white, 6'2", larger build. I work in IT. I was stuck in a career I didn't feel passionate about and worked my ass off to change careers. I'm a pretty relaxed and even-tempered guy. I'm extremely loyal to the people I care about. Once you gain that from me, I may as well belong to you. I tend to go with the flow of things and am easily roped into stuff if you really want me to do something with you. My idea of a fun night is staying in and watching a movie of tv show and falling asleep either in-person or in a voice call with you. I'm a pretty big nerd, so if your interests are adjacent to that, we'll have plenty in common! I love sports, and to be honest most of my activity on this account is just shitposting on sports subs, so you probably won't gather much intel about me if you decide to torture yourself by digging through it lol. I'm a pretty big pet person too so sending me pet pics as an opener is optimal.

Who I'm looking for: First off, I'd prefer if you're close... Like within the south suburbs area close. I don't mind a bit of distance, but if we're tight I'd prefer to spend a lot of time with you ya know. I like women who know what they want; In life, in a partner, career-wise, etc. I'm not super picky about appearance, age, or ethnicity. I like someone who is just fun to be with and who feels similarly about me. You're someone who pushes me to improve myself. Even if our interests don't line up perfectly, you still love to share what you're into. I'm open-minded about the type of person you are, so if you're interested and feel compelled to reach out, just do it. I'd love to chat with ya. Bonus points if you're a flirt that enjoys her fair share of kink ;)

What I want from us: I just want to be with someone who cares about me as much as I care about them. I'm turning 30 this year and want to find the one to settle down with. I do like to make plans quickly if we click through chat, so expect me to ask you out to lunch or dinner so we can get to know each other better if there's chemistry. Potential dealbreaker however: I'm unsure if I want children. If you need to be with someone who 100% wants them, perhaps it's not meant to be.

If I seem cool, feel free to reach out. Tell me about yourself and what you're looking for too. Feel free to ask me anything as well. I'm an open book. Have a nice weekend!