First of all, it's not to say being vanilla is a negative thing. That seems to be a fairly common perception, especially on reddit, or it's used as an insult. There's nothing wrong with enjoying vanilla sex and disliking kinks. For most of my life I was content with vanilla sex and not getting too different. But it's been building inside me for a while now that I want to break out and experiment in all different kinds of ways. I want to spend time exploring someone's body and being explored.
But I have really no idea where to start. That's why I'm looking for a woman who is okay with taking the lead (at first at least) and showing me the ropes of kink life. Ideally we would have something ongoing maybe once or twice a week
Im 6'0, 175 lbs or so, pretty HWP. My job keeps me active so I'm fairly in shape. Italian and Irish, so do with that information what you will. I am above average sized but not huge. I am in Chicago Ridge. Prefer not to host because I live with family, would rather travel or find a hotel room. I am hygienic, ddf, single, and I ask that you be the same. 420 friendly
Ideally we'd meet in public at a bar or a coffee shop or restaurant for our first time and make sure the vibes are there and neither one of us is a weirdo or nuts. Then we can go with the flow and see how we'd like to approach our next move. There's no one size fits all scenario.
Some kinks I've been interested in are as follows: Water sports Cum play Size difference Voyeurism Exhibitionism Being recorded Public play Role play
This isn't a complete list, just a taste of what we should get into. If any of this piques your interest, shoot me a dm with a pic and tell me what your favorite kink/fantasy is
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