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Here's the thing. I'm looking for someone I vibe with, which means someone who is clever and fun to talk to. I LOVE wit and flirty banter. That's all I mean by "brilliant" here...you don't have to be a neurosurgeon or a PhD, though those are both attractive as hell. I just want sparks in our conversation. Think "brilliant" as "sparkling" as much as "intelligent".
But also...I'm looking for an edge sexually. I don't just mean "kinky"...to be honest, I've met very kinky people who are boring as hell (no shame, I'm sure some of you know what I mean). I mean maybe there's a compulsion underlying your desire. Something you can't quite control. Impulsiveness, a tendency to make bad decisions because of your lustful need.
Maybe it's just that you watch porn that you'd never, ever want people in your life to find out about. Maybe you want sex "too much". Maybe you have sex "too much". (The quotes are for societal judgment and norms, not for, you know...us.)
Anyway. I'm kinda like all of those things myself, and I'm looking for someone on my level. By "on my level", please understand I'm not saying that with any superiority lol. Definitely in the gutter a little bit here. But brilliant (ie "sparkling") nonetheless.
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