I have hooked up with countless (truly, I have no idea) women and have only slept with two of them more than once as I’ve only ever felt a connection with two women. I am pretty selective, so would you fucking believe that the second person I’ve ever connected with was a r/chicagor4r hookup???

Our first hookup was 2 weeks ago. I posted about being down for anything hahah and she posted about wanting to peg a man HAHAHAHAH but she messaged me anyway and we met for a drink that night. The creases in our hands aligned like puzzle pieces and in her strong grip I knew she is who I placed bets on all these other people for. I knew I found a connection literally through her grip. What a special experience first smooshing bodies!!

We proceeded to create a beautiful, wide and deep trust through raw sex, fucking like heathens and moaning from deep in our guts like our primate ancestors. Two humans doing what humans do. The safety and freedom we felt evolved into experiencing a sub-dom vulnerability practice. I discovered what I have been chasing and craving is the unique safety that allows me to indulge in submission.

Now her cat’s warmed up to me, my favorite vibrator is lost under her bed, and I found a curly hair on my clean laundry. She likes bubbly drinks and would rather have soda water than still. We spend work nights rolling around in bed reaching for each others’ hands to hold. Last night she asked me to take her out on a date right after cuming on my fingers. I think I might. Is this love?

It feels so delightful and fast and unexpected, especially from Reddit, especially from chicagor4r. I guess it doesn’t really matter how you cross paths, it’s all about timing and luck.

I’ll keep all you hopeful horny boys of Reddit updated on the situationship. We’re both free on Saturday and I just got a raise at work, but I’m scared of ruining what we have by getting too close, tbh. Maybe I’ll just say fuck it and buy her dinner. Idk yet. Ttyl!