Hi!
I’m looking for a long-term D/s dynamic but am open to the specific mechanics of it. Categorizing people and attaching labels to how they relate always gets complicated, so let’s just chat and see where that gets us. I have found that I can mesh well with sadists and daddies alike.
An emotional connection is important to me. At its best, D/s can be intimate and vulnerable for both parties. Knowing each other’s dreams and fears, strengths and weaknesses, habits and blind-spots, makes putting me on my knees that much more powerful. A successful dynamic is co-created by dom and sub as equal partners, with mutual respect and trust. At the same time, this is supposed to be fun! If we can’t giggle over that very un-dom-ly thing you did that one time or when I made that weird noise, then what even is the point?
I work in finance and spend most of my day elbow-deep in spreadsheets. I love to read, write, draw, and paint and I think I’m a pretty good cook. I have only lived in the city for about a year and have had a blast trying all of the restaurants, exploring museums, and seeing shows (opera, plays, etc.). I’m 5’8” and 145lbs with long, blonde hair and blue eyes.
Please live in Chicagoland and be willing to meet in person. I am happy to share pictures of myself and hope you are as well. I also love voice messages.
xoxo Eliza
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