Hello!
My partner and I are looking to find someone else we can both hang out and play with together. Ideally, this would be like a FWBs sort of dynamic where we're equally comfortable chilling and watching a movie as we are getting up to sexy shenanigans.
We're both kink-friendly neurodivergent weirdos who spend way too much time watching bad horror movies. We also like going out for drinks and food when we have the time and energy, though they're gluten and lactose intolerant, so food can be a little tricky sometimes. They're pretty into fiber arts and spend a good chunk of their time knitting. Most of my at-home free time goes toward playing video games or watching TV/movies with them.
My partner is 35, AFAB non-binary, dark brown curly hair, short and curvy. They’re pretty femme, but have had top surgery. I'm 37 and have tall/slender build, short brown hair, brown eyes, as well as a beard that I usually keep trimmed...I'm generally a pretty hairy guy.
Sexually, we both like spending a lot of time focused on pleasing the people we’re with and making sure they have a good time - that often translates to a lot of touching, massaging, switching between sex, oral and back again…and just generally a lot of sensual play that draws out the teasing until everyone can hardly stand it.
We're relatively flexible about what kind of dynamic we're looking for (it takes three to tango in this case, so this would be something that evolves together with the person we end up going with). Safe and consensual sex is important to us, so there will never be any pressure to do things if the chemistry or mood isn't there, and we both get screened for STIs regularly; my last screening was in January and they were screened in December.
Anyway, we'd love to start with chatting a bit and getting to know each other first, and then potentially meet up to hang out or go out for drinks/dinner to make sure there's still interested in person. If this kinda thing sounds like it could be fun for you, send us a message and let us know some stuff about you/what you’re into.
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