Hi, beautiful people of the greater Chicago area!

I’ve come to Reddit because what I’m looking for is specific and hard to convey over a dating profile.

I’ve spent a long time in an orgasmless relationship and now that I’m out, I want to explore new kinks and find out what makes me cum.

What I’m seeking: a partner that is patient and willing to take the time to figure out what will make me cum. Can focus on my pleasure and then I will reciprocate eagerly and happily. I also want guidance on what feels good and what I could improve upon. I would love to meet up regularly and try new things together over the next couple months. Please be single and clean! I’m not interested in enm or polygamy. I need you to be a strong communicator and vocal in bed.

What I already know is that there are aspects of bdsm that I am genuinely interested in. I would like to spend some time working our way into a trusting partnership where I can eventually surrender myself to the man that has been teaching me more about my body and physical intimacy. This would be exclusive sex so that we could eventually forego protection.

About me: I reckon I’m a very sweet girl when I’m not on r4r looking for someone to turn my body out. I’m an Asian bbw, like I mentioned, so please make sure you’re on board before messaging. I like my own body and don’t have an interest in changing it.

These are my limits: public play, age play (regression, age difference is sexy), water sports, hard sports, toilet play, hookup training, cuck, anything with kids, animals or illegal activity.

Whew. I know that’s a lot of text, but if you’ve made it this far and you’re interested, I would love to get to know you. I would prefer that you’re the same age or older than me. But I’m open-minded. And I’d love a photo of you. I’ll send one back to make sure we have mutual attraction.

No matter what, thank you for reading! 💕