First and foremost: not looking to change anyone’s situation. I am comfortable with where I am at and what I have. Sure the bedroom is dead but for the most part we get along.
With that being said, I’m a super laid back, funny and relaxed kind of guy. I work, a lot, but when I get time to myself I like to venture off into Chicago. Usually on the northside but open to pretty much anywhere. Married for ten years and while we get along there are deficiencies along the way. She doesn’t get out much and frankly I am tired of being alone all the time. I’m usually in Chicago 2-3 times a month.
I’m 40, white, 5’7 with brown hair and hazel eyes. Bit of a dad bod that I’m pretty comfortable with. Like I said before, easy going but I also know what I like when it comes to the bedroom. I tend to be a little more on the rough and dominate side but nowhere near what I think a true dom is. So that’s just something to keep in mind, I am also not looking to be submissive, not who I am.
Connection is important to me. In my opinion, none of this works without a real connection. Otherwise, the physical act is nothing but mechanical in nature. It’s so much better when we can match levels in other areas as well. I like cooking, travel, cars, outdoors and people watching. Mostly like anything that helps me unplug for a bit so that I can take my mind off of the daily bullshit.
Looking for someone in a similar situation and see where things go from there. We can get to know one another and see where things fall into place. Not looking for working girls, give out donations or any of the other nonsense I see posted on here.
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