Even after a decade of experience in D/s relationships, what I still enjoy most is when I connect with people who are still evolving and exploring what kink means to them. I am by no means an “expert” nor someone who’s whole identity is wrapped up in BDSM - but the continual learning with like minded folks really does it for me.

If you have any kink experience or none at all, and are looking to meet someone kind and fun to do some exploring with - we might get along just great!

A bit more about me:

I’m 38, 6’1”, 175 lbs - height/weight proportionate, 7” uncut thick. ENM and Pansexual. Fully vaccinated and up-to-date on my testing. I'm a pretty experienced Dominant man, who values consent and aftercare. I equally enjoy passionate and sensual experiences, and genuinely get pleasure from putting your satisfaction first. I live on the north side of Chicago.

What I’m looking for:

These are just some examples of things I’ve enjoyed in the past and have experience with. Maybe you’re into some and not others, and maybe I don’t have your curiosity listed at all (I would love to find it out).

• Eating you out into wave after wave of pleasure.
• Hot, sensual, fiery make-outs that last forever.
• Edging, teasing, forced orgasm, orgasm denial.
• Rope bondage, restraints, sensory deprivation.
• Impact play - spanking, slapping, and rough manhandling.
• Hair pulling, nipple play, and using toys to push your limits.
• Intense oral/Face fucking.
• Verbal kinks - whether that’s dirty talk, degradation and/or praise.
• Group sex in all its many forms.

Who you are:

I’m not putting any limits here, other than you being a vaccinated and recently tested, lady-identifying or non-binary person, who is open minded and eager. I’m super into queer/switchy folks as well and get along great with folks who, like me, are also sex/body/kink positive.

Sounds like you, doesn't it? Send me a message with a little about yourself and let’s see if we’re a good match.

Thanks in advance!