As the title suggests I am looking for an individual who can be both domme and sub depending on the interaction.

(Communication is key and with being kink friendly comes the responsibility to know when it’s “too much”. There will need to be a clear understanding of what is okay and isn’t as to make sure both sides boundaries are respected)

Now personally, I’ve done the whole “dom” lifestyle and for a few months it was some of the best sex I’ve had in my life but eventually there came a time when I began to question the other side of the coin. Being in control over your partner is intoxicating but what was it like to be the sub? What was it like to be choked while being rode? These thoughts began to circle in my mind as I began to feel my sexual side relax and become more comfortable not being in control. It’s nice. Being able to relinquish your control to someone and trust them through their actions.

With communication will come the science behind learning an individual. Though this is a NSFW sub, there’s still so much you can learn about an individual that’s nonsexual. Hell, you and I know that having a mental connection will only enhance the physical. So with that being said I am asking for honesty and clarity in your intentions. Of course we don’t need to trauma dump or anything but it would be nice to get to know someone before meeting them, yah know?

Now about myself…well, I moved here from Texas about a year ago and braved my first Chicago winter. Texas boy survived those -30 days and is now soaking it up in the warmth that reminds me of home. I’m tall, runners build, DF and kink friendly. Impartial to pot or drinks, I enjoy them but don’t need them if that makes sense. As an outdoorsy person you’ll most likely catch me at the beach when I’m not working but we can work on changing that. I’m told by coworkers that there’s still so much more I need to see and do in the city as well so if the schedules align there’s opportunity for outings!

DM’s are open, let’s chat!