I posted a post before, but felt like it was attracting a misunderstood or mismatched group of people. So, I'd like to be a bit more direct here.

- For me, bdsm and sex comes into slightly different brackets for me. BDSM can exist for me without sex, though still very sensual. I can get naked and do bdsm with you, even without knowing you personally in the first place as long as I know you are a decent human being, who would respect consent, my boundaries, and limits. But sex, sex is more intimate for me, something that I'd like to do once I trust you and have a connection with you. Or at least, that's how I see it now.- I have a degradation/humiliation/dehumanization kink. My degradation kink doesn't come in the form of degrading, rough, sex acts (e.g. fuck you like this, like that...etc). Again, it doesn't mean that I won't do them, it is just not what come to my mind first in terms of my degradation kinks.

- What I've done and liked: collar, leash, pet play, body writing, position trainings, pee control, overstimulations, handling roughly (e.g. hair pulling, thrown around safely...etc)...- Some of my other kinks fantasies: i have a bit of an exhibitionist kink that I've come to realized. One of my fantasy includes being dommed or forced to show my submission to my master in front of a small vetted audience. Bondage, maybe more impact play, dommed by 2 people or a couple, or a woman, treated like a furniture, tpe...etc.

- Ideally monogamous - ideally i would love to be able to trust someone enough to hand over control over to them knowing full well that they would have the best of my interest in mind, while exploring all the kinks we ever want. I don't mind trying anything at least once, and laugh at things that don't work out.But currently, i don't want to seek for a relationship with sex because i don't like expectations from someone and i don't like the feeling of being rushed. so just putting it out there up front.

Not sure if i convey this in an understandable manner - im a little complicated. i don't generally trust people. no trust issues or whatever but simply just a woman in kink. i love kinks because i love kinks. can video call neck down and talk to verify.Wish everyone the very best!