Hey I’m Matt, (22M) from the Chicago downtown area. I’m currently looking for an adventurous sub for a long term d/s or fwb dynamic (with potential for something more serious).

About me: I’m 5”10 (mixed) with dark features and a skinny/athletic build. I’m located downtown, vaccinated, clean, and 420 friendly. Ideally looking for someone in their 20’s as well but am open if we get along well.

Looking for someone who wants to release those primal desires with me. More so than anything, I’m looking for a sub who is open to explore new kinks and is overall adventurous both in and out of bed (exploring new kinks/hobbies/experiences/etc). I enjoy all sides of the d/s dynamic and that extends past the bedroom as well.

As far as specifics interests go, I genuinely love being in control (both in my personal life and in my private life). This being said, I also tend be a bit on the softer dom side of the bdsm spectrum. While I do like to be firm and strict, I also enjoy being sort of a rock and caring for my sub.

Outside of bed, prospective subs can expect a good amount of guidance and care in their lives. As a dom, I want to be that person you can lean on and trust to aid you throughout your day to day. If you had any issue or needed any help with something, I would want you to come to me.

In bed however, I want to earn/develop a relationship with my sub in that they are both wanting and eager to please me. I tend to be much more strict and dominant in this domain than in a day to day and enjoy exerting a lot of control over my sub. In terms of general kinks I’m very into bondage, worship, tpe, a bit of light impact play, and anal play (there are many more that we can get into over chat as well).

If you are looking for something similar, I would love to chat a bit and see if we click. I’m down to trade photos to verify anything as well