Hello there! Thanks for taking the time to read my post 😊

A little bit about myself:

First, the basics.

I'm 19, and a Sagittarius, if that holds any weight to you.

I'm Female.

I'm 5'11", and a BBW.

I'm Abrosexual, and am open to partners of all gender identities 🏳️‍🌈

I currently have the ability to travel, and sometimes have the ability to host 🚗 🏡

I'm very involved in the local Scene and normally attend at least 1-2 events a week.

In my vanilla life, I work mostly afternoons/early evenings and my availability reflects that.

I'm a nerd, and will most likely bombard you with random facts from Dungeons and Dragons, a new anime I started watching, or miscellaneous rabbitholes I've explored on the interwebs 🐉

My primary love languages are quality time and physical touch, but words of affirmation are pretty high on the list as well.

I'm neurodivergent and a spooning with a variety of chronic illnesses that I deal with. They're pretty well-managed at this point but I can occasionally have flare ups that impact pain levels, sleep quality, and energy throughout the day.

Now, onto the kinky side of things.

Roles:

🧸 Little - my little age tends to be 1-3 and the deeper in the headspace I get, the less verbal I am. I tend to get a bit clingy as a little, enjoy physical touch and going on adventures, but never incorporate alot of pain (light barehanded spankings is fine), degradation, or humiliation. I like to stay diapered up and explore both SFW and NSFW ageplay. In dark ageplay I quite like the incorporation of broken innocence, breeding, and virginity play.

🐱 Pet - consisting of both kittenplay and puppy play, in petspace I love feeling used, degraded, and objectified. Anal, collars and leashes, floggings, watersports, and humiliation are all huge favorites of mine in this headspace.

Domme - I do switch about 10-20% of the time, and when Dominant I fit into more of a gentle Mommy Domme role, even though if requested I can most certainly have some sadistic streaks. Diaper play, spankings, cock milking, pegging, and breastfeeding play are all huge turn ons in this space, but scenes are very much so curated toward the interests of the submissive.

Kinks:

In addition to the interests listed with the headspaces above, I do have quite a few additional kinks.

Group play - cucking, mfm, being shared by a partner, small to large gangbangs.

Consentual non-consent - interrogation play, forced breeding, forced regression, bondage, sensory deprivation, knifeplay, physical overpowerment, play wresting.

Hard limits (non-negotiables):

Ass-to-anything

Degradation based on intelligence or physical appearance

Blood play (including cutting, needles, and permanent markings)

Any bodily fluid outside of cum, spit, and piss. (Diaper messing is fine, only on the giving end)

Any type of gunplay.

Any type of knifeplay with non-play knives.

Family member roleplay.

Confinement in dark spaces. (Caging is fine when accompanied)

Race play.

Feederism.

Rimming. (Receiving end only, if applicable)

Overall, anything outside of the bounds of PRICK/RACK.

Any 'gray area' kinks and/or limits should be a full discussion, in a neutral context (eg. Not right before a scene in a dungeon, but rather a coffee shop or non-play meetup).

I use the opt-in method, and anything not specifically discussed for a scene, will be completely outside the bounds of a scene, especially with a new partner.

Protocols:

I require aftercare lasting at least half of the time of a scene, if not longer, especially for more intense sessions.

During aftercare I enjoy snuggles, headpets, words of affirmation, forehead kisses, stuffies to snuggle with, skin-to-skin contact, and the full attention of my partner. This means after a scene, whenever possible and within reason, you wouldn't immediately leave, spend aftercare time scrolling on your phone, or leaving me alone to go fulfill a different task/responsibility.

I'm a squirter and can lose alot of fluids during certain types of scenes, so having a drink (preferably with electrolytes) and snack nearby to have during aftercare can be quite nice as well.

If there isn't enough time for aftercare, assume in good faith there isn't enough time for a scene. I don't do quickies and always require aftercare, it's non-negotiable. Obviously in the case of an unexpected emergency there would be exceptions, but otherwise this is my standard expectation.

What I'm looking for:

Someone between the ages of 18 to 40 (preferably, but flexible if we click really well)

Someone within an hour of Chicago. I will not be responding to messages from people outside of the Midwest, as I'm not in a position to relocate nor am I looking for online play partners at the moment.

Someone experienced with kink, or very willing to learn. My ideal partner would have an interest in attending events, conventions, dungeon hours, ect, with me as I value involvement in the local scene, whether single or partnered.

Someone looking for a long-term, monogamous relationship. I'm not open to hookups or friends with benefits. I'm always open to just friends though 😊

Next steps:

If interested, please do shoot me a message, making sure to include the following information:

How old are you?

How long have you been involved in the kink community? (If applicable)

Where are you located? Do you have the ability to travel and/or host?

What would your ideal relationship/dynamic look like?

Decribe your ideal first date.

What are your current goals? (It could be personal, professional, or otherwise)

Describe a time in a scene where something went wrong, and how you approached the issue.

Favorite snuggle position.