So I think I found my partner cheating on me virtually. She went to bed early last night on the couch and as I was packing our stuff away and was about to carry her to bed I saw a notification from a social media app with love hearts I was intrigued because I have never seen this name or heard of this person before, we have a very open relationship where we tell eachother everyone we are friends with and talk to if they are new but not this person so I opened it to the last message from her saying “I love you” my heart sinks and begin to panic and snoop and start looking through all the messages where they have been sexting from New Year’s Day, I guess new year new partner or something but it’s only when I have gone to bed which means she has been doing it everyday since then right next to me in our bed and I don’t know what to do, idk if I should confront her about it but then again I snooped into her phone and I feel bad about that. We also are having family up until the 20th so I don’t want to bring it up now he lives in a different country so they have never met up or anything but idk what would you do in this situation!

Edit: and the plot thickens boys, her laptop was on, on the bed before she left for work and as I was walking around trying to figure out what to do I heard a ding and when I looked at the computer it was a message from my partner to the guy and said “Hey I’m so sorry for using you, I thought I was missing something in my relationship and I was seeing if I could find it elsewhere but I can’t and I can’t do this to the person I love so much I can’t believe I have done this much already but it ends now I’m blocking you bye. And he is in facted blocked. I still feel I should confront her because it was like 5 days of this but atleast I know she is sorry I wonder if she will confess to it when she gets home tonight!