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So my fiancée, engaged since 2019, together since 2013, i believe is cheating on me. He used to have a phone that was for work, but he sold his business earlier in 2024. I haven't seen that phone in months. I thought it was gone. come to find out yesterday. He still had that phone so I'm like what? Why do you still have that? He's been hiding it from me in his work bag which he doesn't need a work bag, but he still has a work bag? He's been texting A girl who has the Same name as me which I found out a few yeas ago was a joke that there was two, like oh there's T1 there's T2, like what the fuck why is this still a thing? And I now find texts that he loves her? is it wrong for me to go through his text on this phone? What the fuck? He's now sleeping on the guest room floor, and btw he has a history of this. I have don't have evidence of physical cheating but I have several of him 'trying' and I've taken him back. Is it time to GTFO of this?

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First of all, electronic devices should be open season to pick up and use free will among committed partners. And snooping is fair game when any partner is behaving suspiciously. 100% I'd go thru it.

He's probably cheating. Be prepared to see some very hurtful things. The very fact that he's hiding a phone is a huge red flag.

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