Hi This is a throw away account just in case because I’m unsure what this man is capable of. I’m reaching out on my cousins behalf. Long story short she married this guy only a few months into knowing him and he’s completely ostracized her from our family and a lot of her friends. They have two kids together. He’s a pastor and she owns her own business. They live a Pinterest perfect life filters and all. Last night I received a message from a mutual friend who I haven’t talked to in years. She sent me screenshots of my cousins husband trying to get her to meet up with her for drinks behind my cousins back. He even sent her a DP.

After receiving these messages I reached out to another friend who was shocked to hear and then proceeded to tell me that his friend was also getting messages of the same caliber from my cousins husband. He said terrible things in the messages, like telling the girls it needs to stay a secret and that his life is boring and other degrading things towards my cousin. The first girl who reached out to me is scared of him, she thinks he’s dangerous so I am trying to proceed with caution.

I would tell my cousin but she already hates my family for a long list of selfish reasons so I feel like I can’t go to her with this info in fear that she will just shut down and think it’s a lie as well as idk if this guy will come after me if I tell her. He’s scary and idk what he’s capable of… On the other hand I love my cousin and don’t want her to be cheated on or used like this she doesn’t deserve this. I want to help get this information to her but I also think we need a little bit more evidence. Is it worth hiring someone to help catch a cheater? Instagram bait?

Yes I have screenshots and yes I have the DP

Please any advice or suggestions on how to catch him and get this information to her without him getting to it first would be great. If anyone needs anymore clarification on the matter I’m willing to share more information on the situation, it’s just very messy and there’s a ton of loops.