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Hi all, first time poster. I am m33 with a partner f27. I today found out she has had an onlyfans, seeking arrangement, and fetlife account the entirety of our relationship. I have found mostly through fetlife activity that she communicates, flirts and engages with people to get them to pay content. I feel betrayed as I never knew any of this. I also feel betrayed as the content is not things she has sent me and often is hesitant to send me things (e.g nudes). She swears by that it was only online and she never slept or did anything with anyone in person. But how could I ever believe it? She says it was to earn money and feel the attention.
On the inverse she had been super over protective of anything I do to the strictness of questioning why Iād even watch movies/tv shows with sexual themes.
Any and all advice is appreciated.
She acts that way towards you just like cheaters accuse innocent partners of cheating...projection behavior. I would handle this like any typical cheating behavior...she's interacting with other people sexually, online or in person isn't relevant when labeling it cheating or not. Honestly, personally...I'd leave.
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