I (F) started seeing a guy in 2Q of 2024. He’s in the Air Force and presented himself as single. By June, we agreed to be exclusive. Things felt serious despite the long distance, and I was planning to visit him in September. He had already visited me twice, and during one of those visits, we slept together the month before the pregnancy announcement.

One week before my trip in September, he texted me out of the blue to tell me another woman is pregnant with his child. He claimed it was from a “one-night stand” in February, months before we agreed to be exclusive. I was shocked, but as I pushed him for more details, his story didn’t add up.

It turns out that he had been seeing her since the day we started seeing each other and slept with her in July—after we’d agreed to be exclusive. Not only did he cheat on me, but he was in a full-blown relationship with both of us at the same time—she was in his town, while I was in another state.

I just recently found all this out, and I feel blindsided. I have proof—texts, timelines, and conversations—that he was lying to both of us while pretending to be exclusive with each of us. Part of me wants to expose him to the woman, not because I feel responsible for warning her, but because I’m angry. He completely disrespected me, lied to both of us, and blew up my life. I want him to face some consequences for his actions.

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