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For context, we’ve been dating a little over 2 years now. He has admitted to cheating with other girls throughout our relationship and we are trying to work through it. He wants to go out tomorrow night to his local hometown bar for blackout Wednesday. As many are aware, this is basically a high school reunion. He claims that nothing will happen and he is having a guys night. I am uncomfortable with it because he’s texted girls from his high school while we have been together. I really don’t want him to go but I’ve never told him he cannot do something before. Do I have the right to be worried and not want him to go?
Not only do you have the right, but you should be FURIOUS if he even WANTS to go, let alone goes anyway. A man that is truly remorseful for cheating and wants your forgiveness and trust back wouldn't even think about putting you in a position like this. The very fact that he wants to go, despite your fears, is a sure sign that he still doesn't care about you and your feelings. The second he realized that you were fearful should have been the second he felt immediate sorry for making you feel that way and called it off.
Honestly, multiple cheats and now this (and I am positive there's more) - I'd personally leave.
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