I found that my wife was chatting on snapchat, with a man. She "came clean" and told me he propositioned her for sex almost 8 years after it supposedly happened. She told me they had 1 conversation. She came clean because we were at a pivotal point in the relationship, supposedly laying everyrhing on the table...

Come to find out, after she let me look at her data, they had many days worth of conversations (who knows how many that werent listed in the data, because snap deletes everything unless you accidentally save it.), it's listing him as her #2 best friend and the one message it saved was from her saying in text "what's that smell? Lol". I feel like this was an easy way for her to slightly come forward about something and feel better when much worse happened. I can't think of any reason for that message, on snap with video other than a reference to something sexual.

Am I being ridiculous in thinking this is bad, especially that message? This was also a friend from when she was a teenager. If so please provide context for what that message could be referencing... thanks.