I recently noticed my wife was way exuberantly friendly to some guy we hadn’t seen for four years and met 9 years ago at first day of elementary school.

So she gaslights me.

But I found suspicious stains on 7 of her professional and casual dresses from that time period (she buys a ton of dresses).

One dress has all these burrs from grass or vegetation stuck all over the front. On the back of course there’s a telltale big white dried stain like all the rest

How do I get these things tested for semen? I see there are all kinds of tests online.

My main reason for testing is to stop her gaslighting me. I feel this could be actual proof.

I want the proof.

We have a 12 and 14 year old and I don’t know if she’s manipulating to stay with me until the kids are grown before she dumps me.

I met her at age 16, this cheating would have been at age 43, she’s now 51.

Since I suspected the cheating weve been banging twice a day and with vibrators I just made her climax a record 5 times yesterday. I never had made her climax much before age 43, afterwards I could by grinding her. I bet she picked that up from her AP. By the way, he’s ugly Im good looking. She’s pretty much my soul mate. Not sure if her lack of climaxing was why she did it. But now she’s a total sex addict. Just yesterday says ‘those pubs are getting in the way of the vibrator, why don’t you trim them to 1/4’. Lol as if she didn’t learn this from the AP.

Anyway we’re sexually happy now, pretty sure she’s always loved me, but she was just doing this on the side to get off.

But, main question is where do I get these dresses tested?