So recently we had a family gathering. The usual getting drunk and just chillin kickin it as a family. I’m really cool with my wife’s co worker being that we Have all chilled together and hung out and what not. So we are kicking it outside Me, My brother n law , my wife, my sister in law, and a few family friends. So my wife’s sister is engaged to her fiancé my brother n law. He and I are like super close like we go waayyy back. We know each others “SECRETS” ya know? Like we have a really close bond like a real brother and sister would have. But I am also super close with my sister in law we go waayy back also. But not as close close like my bro in law. So boom, back to the story.. we are all chilling outside drinking .. At this point my brother is fucked up but still vining as usual. Next thing you know my wife’s co worker calls my phone and is like” hey what’s up what y’all doing?” Long story short she ends up pulling up on us to kick it and hang out. So here we all chilling and stuff ,boys on one side girls on the other.. (I’m a stud so I’m kicking it on the boys side). My brother in law walks over to the girls side to hand his wife a cigarette. He comes back over to our side and was like “bruh I’ve been smashing that for a while now”. I’m like “huh” what are you talking about?” He’s like shorty over there in the black dress. (Referring to my wife’s co worker) I’m like “wtf stop lying bro” He’s like man what reason do I have to lie? I’m standing there shocked like wtf ? How? When? … but we didn’t get much time to talk about it cause all of us started merging together into one group. Oh yea and the co worker had chilled with all us of us on multiple occasions. (Without my brother in law around) So my wife’s sister and the co worker are like friends/associates .

So all night in my head Im like damn do I say something and ruin everyone’s night or just hold that secret forever.

The thing is …. The co workers is really close with my wife. But is/was fucking my Wife’s Sister fiancé.

I don’t want my wife hanging out with a shady ass girl like that. But if I tell her then she is gonna tell her sister . Then it will get back that I am the one who said something. And shit will really hit the fan.

So do I leave everyone has one big, happy family or do I tell the truth and fuck up everyone’s friendship and relationship?

I’ll lose the relationship with my brother. My brothers relation with my sis in law will be super fucked up. And my wife will lose her relationship with her co worker.

And I’ll look like the bad guy for starting the drama! Idk what to do !!