Me (M30) and my fiancé (26) have been in a relationship for the past 8 years, we are from Venezuela, we were force to leave the country because of the dictatorship, we went to aruba were we stay for almost 1year, everything was going great I was working extra shifts to pay every bill and have a good time in the beautiful beaches of aruba, I could save a lot of money because she wanted to all ways go some where and couldn’t say no, after a while my hours got cut and we were in bad shape, so I have a few friends tell me that they’re making great money in Argentina.

We now migrate for a second time to a new country, Buenos Aires was an awesome city, it was easy to get out documents in order here is where the fights start I’m not really a jealous guy and she was always honest and told me everything until 1 day she tells me that there is this guy who is telling her to get marry, I tell her to stop talking to the guy and she says no, because that’s her friend since they’re kids, I tell her to watch how she talks to other guys because she might be friendly but they could think is something else, 3 years past and we have our 1st child a beautiful baby girl name mia, and we are faced with a hard choice the Argentina peso went from 32pesos=1 USD to 65pesos= 1 USD . Which means now I make half the money because the socialist party won the presidency, so I thought either USA or Europe…

So I come first to Spain 3 months later she comes with our baby, Europe is great and all but working here ir hard and you can’t really make more than 1500€ per month if your lucky, most people live with a regular pay check of 1000-1200 € per month, we were just thankful to be in a place where the economy was stable, after the pandemic we have our second kid Ethan in 2021, so after many good times and sad ones living in 4 different countries 2 gorgeous kids she says she’s we’re done because I can’t give her and our kids everything they need, and starts seen another guy he’s the owner of a restaurant and has a good amount of money….

What I need help is with the fact that my relationship is over, I have family one the USA make somewhere between 800 and 1100 weekly, I want to go so I can rebuild my life, but I won’t be able to see my kids god knows for how long, or I stay here and get to see them once a week but with a salary of 1100 € per month, and I have to pay my bills and child support which leaves me with maybe 50€ for beer at the end of the month…

I don’t know what to do please help…

P.S she is still in the family find my iPhone and she is currently at a hotel.