My wife's friend is recently married and I heard a message she sent to my wife. The first one went like this: she was just talking about random stuff then at the end she says, "Now with the next message coming up you're going to need to make sure nobody is around because it's just for you." Then in the next message she talks about some guys she saw that day whom she found attractive, basically drooling over them but nothing else.

Now I can't decide if this is bad or not, something I should tell her hubby. Of course I am also an arsehole for listening in, but that aside, it felt so sneaky and evil, I could hear it in her voice. But then on the other hand, it's just looking. It's like she's hiding something but when you go and look it's nothing much. I don't think by the way there is anything wrong in drooling over other people when you are in a relationship, it's like a safety valve. So I can't decide what to think. What do you guys think?