I was married a few years back and my wife passed of a heart attack. We had sex like every day sometimes twice or three times per day. Since she passed I dated a couple women. I was dating this girl (who I found out was cheating later) who wouldn’t have sex with me for 6 months. In my job I am around a lot of different women and get hit on a lot and during that relationship for the first time I cheated, three different times with women who threw themselves at me in various ways. I broke that off when I found out what was going on. I’m now with a wonderful woman who basically matches my sex drive and we have sex fairly often but not every day. When we don’t have sex or she already masturbated with a vibrator or something it takes everything in me not to fuck other women. The other night two girls invited me to their apartment and it took everything in me to say no. I don’t understand why I’m so obsessed with fucking and why my restraint has become so thin, I had many relationships and never cheated even dated a girl for three years in high school with no sex. At 30 years old I just wanna fuck all the time. I would do it all day if I could. How can I get past this and not cheat on my girlfriend