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I (f 28) and my boyfriend of a year (m 29) are currently pregnant and expecting his first child in November. I do have a 5 year old daughter from my ex and she loves my boyfriend. We went on vacation to Florida when I’m originally from this week and we have been saving up and were excited to get away from everything and start over. For context I found out he was sexting a girl from one of his discord groups and then moved it to snap chat which is the cheaters app, and I have no proof she sent him anything. Him and I agreed to work on our relationship and start over. Skip to now and we are on this trip and he and I were having fun. He fell asleep after a day out doing family fun and his phone was unlocked. I had an uncomfortable feeling seeing as I ask him constantly to show me his phone he is always hiding away on it and such. It was unlocked and I decided to look through some stuff. Not only does he have 3 females he snaps. But has 4 separate messaging apps he messages girls on. He has asked for nudes on whisper and saves them to his phone and paid for them while on this vacation. But he also has the lovense long distance toy app that we used to use together when we were long distance. But the same girl he sexting from discord and him used this app as well. He controlled her long distance sex toy and made her finish. I woke him up snd confronted him about it and he said it’s not cheating seeing as it was not in person and he had no emotional connection. I tried to explain to him that it was and he is adamant it is not. I don’t know where to go from here seeing as I’m carrying his child and my heart is torn.
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