So, the first cage came in yesterday. My wife ordered one of the best reviewed HTv4 knockoffs from Amazon to see if this is something we both could get into.

We were helping some friends move some stuff when the package was delivered so I was super excited to get home. We got home around 430pm ish amd she immediately told me to go put it on. It took a bit of finagling to find the right size ring and to get it on because I was obviously turned on.

Once I got it on, with the biggest ring, I told her that I put the keys back in the bag so that over the next hour or so I could adjust it to fit or swap rings.

Over the next half hour I ended up going down in ring size and finding one that fit securely but didn't hurt. Once that was done I packed all the stuff up in the bag and told her it was good. We sat down, ate dinner, watched TV and at some point she asked how it felt. I told her it was comfortable but definitely noticeable. Out of nowhere, she said, well that's good since I've hidden the keys. Guess you'll have to beg me to unlock it.

I was instantly so turned on and it felt so different. The tugging of the cage and the tightness was so erotic. We continued the night, got the kids to bed and then laid down in bed naked ro watch TV. She started telling me what to do! Rub my feet. Massage my back. Lick my ass, rub my shoulders, brush my hair. It was all directions of whatever she felt like she wanted. And it was so hot hearing her be so dominant. Eventually she unlocked me about 6 hours after hiding the keys and told me to jackoff on her boobs while she played with her vibrator and she even started talking dirty during this. Saying things like you wish that was you? Too bad you can't have this pussy tonight.

Once it was all done, we put the cage up for the night. I run three days a week before work and didn't want to wear it while running yet so here I am at work unlocked, but she did tell me very confidently that I'll be putting it on after work and also to plan on wearing it to work on Tuesday.

Never thought she would be as immediately into this kink but it's a great feeling. If it pans out I'll have to talk her into getting a higher quality cage. Just wanted to share.

UPDATE: So I got home from work,no mention of it. Got ready to go run errands and I asked her if she wanted to hold the keys for a bit. She got really frustrated and said no, and stop asking because you don't get to pick your own punishment. So we go about the evening without any cage.

Fast forward to bedtime and I just sit down and tell her that I understand the huge difference in our sex drives and kink levels. I said that this one is kinda different than the things I've asked for in the past. Everything else, pegging, bondage, etc. has an element of her active participation. I told her I recognize that she's not always in the mood, but that could be a part of this "game". Her not being in the mood is a part of this. The denial.

I told her I don't view this as punishment but as a passive kink that scratches my kink itch without asking a lot from her in active participation. We have very different sex drives with hers almost non-existent and mine full time wanting kinky play, so for this kink to actively work based on her only allowing my pleasure when she's in the mood and removing the ability for me to be pushy, her misconceptions of it being a punishment were dispelled and now she views the release as a reward instead.

Once I laid it out like that, she was much more on board. So I got locked up. She wanted me to sleep in it tonight but I was worried about easing into it so I took it off before falling asleep.

Because of our schedules she put one of the keys on a special key ring and told me to lock myself up after showering in the morning before going to work. She said to take it with me and it's for emergencies only in case I have any pain and such at work but I have to ask her permission and explain why I want it off first and get her ok before taking it off. This way, until I'm totally used to it, I have a way to get it off. She likes the idea of passive kink play that is really low effort for her but full time kink for me and that it scratches that itch for me.

So tomorrow morning, I'll get up, shower, self lock and store the key in my jacket pocket for emergencies. All day at work is the goal, but I can see this turning into a full time thing that is easy for her to control and will drive me wild waiting for release. Maybe this won't be a temporary or intermittent thing. Goodbye little buddy and welcome to your new home.