So i have a chastity cage, that on the whole is pretty comfortable, but there are two problems with it, that i havent been able to find answers too. Firstly, is the cage is one of the types that has a circle at its tip, which can align with your urethra for you to pee through, or attach a urethral tube too. When i get hard in this cage, my dick tries to push through that hole, and as a result, it opens the uretha (think pulling the sides of the head of your dick towards the shaft, the pressure tries to push the tip of the uretha as far as possible, which ends up seperating it slightly) This makes my underwear rubbing against my cage incredibly painful, as it chaffes the inside of my urethra, which ends up causing swelling and needing to remove the cage after maybe 24-36 hours max. I tried an experiment on the weekend where i didnt wear any underwear or pants all weekend, but by the end of the weekend, the tip of my dick was still chaffed from moving against the metal hole and being open to the air. I fixed this problem by putted a folded square of toilet paper inside my cage, to give it a solid interior to prevent it from trying to push through the small hole, which works, but I have to unlock every time i go to the bathroom, which is bad for extended use or keyholding. I've theorized that using a urethral tube would prevent me from pushing through the hole, while still allowing me to go to the bathroom, but the ridge of my silicon tube is slightly scratchy. I could rub it against my skin for hours without it cutting me, like its not sharp, but I think the inside of my urethra is probably less durable, and its uncomfortable to insert, so im not sure if its safe. Has anyone else had this problem and knows of a way to fix this?
Secondly, my ring I think is too big, since without a string around my waste, it slips down the shaft. However, when i tried a smaller ring, I noticed that the space between the bottom ring of the cage and the inner ring of the base ring itself is too small, and it feels like it puts too much pressure on the veins or arteries or whatever that connect my literal balls to the inside of me. Has anyone found a way to have a small cage and ring, but still have room for their balls to connect to them if that makes sense? or found a cage that is 1.5 inch or shorter that can have a small base ring while still giving room? Are these common problems? I havent seen any information on them online when i search. If anyone could help me out, that would be amazing, and feel free to ask any clarifying questions!