I love you and want our relationship to flourish. I want to be kept exclusively by you. I want to focus myself on being your lover forever.

I know in the past I did a terrible job of conveying my desire to be locked up. I know I pushed it on you and didn't openly express why I wanted to be locked up. The articles I gave you were poorly written and didn't give a good explanation why I thought it would be beneficial to our relationship. I hope we can approach this with a clean slate and look at the ways it can improve our relationship. I don't want to pressure you to try something that something that would drive us any further apart. I feel if we could try this again in a different way our relationship could grow back to the way it was when we were dating.

I have purchased a device and have set a goal of 30 days of not allowed to touch myself and work on being a better companion.

Don't look at this as some weird sexual fetish or kink but as a tool to keep me in a constant state of arousal.

It serves as a constant reminder you love me and that I belong to you!

Click the link to read an article that I think explains it well https://www.tumblr.com/themodernmarriage/682082956424183808/understanding-mismatched-libidos-in-heterosexual?source=share

First off I really like the way it feels.

I crave the absence of any stimulation that is not mutually agreed upon.

It will stop self gratification and stimulate the desire to be more involved in our relationship as a marriage should be with open communication and trust.

Intimate moments should not revolve around my gratification

I want to build up desire again focused on your pleasure

Teasing and physical touch are important

Together showers would be a great addition

Always being clothed and not letting me see you makes me feel like we are just roommates it makes me feel like you are uncomfortable with me seeing you undressed. It hurts me emotionally .I think you are beautiful I love to see your body.

I remember many years ago when I was locked and I pleasure you you said. One of these times I am going to keep you locked and go to sleep. This was an extreme turn on for me, but it never happened. Another time you said since you bought that thing I think you should wear it. This statement did make me very aroused.

I need to have my sexual frustration built up. Simply said if I can just give into the urge to satisfy myself I will loose the desire to pursue your pleasure. Hugging kissing swats on the butt and groin gropes are big deal.

A little dirty talk would be nice . Things like I am going to make you wait till next weekend to do me.

Going out for icecream or out for beer. More often. Compliments .

Ask me to massage you or rub your feet at night. No sexual play required.

Try to become a little more assertive in what you want in the bedroom. Tell me what feels good .

Invite me to sit with you.

Invite me to walk on the beach with you.

Take an active role in keeping the key hidden.

Sexual intimacy will be on your terms.if you are in the mood for any. Directly after intimate moments demand the cage goes back on till next time we are intimate.

I hope my these ideas will help to make our relationship better. I want to be with you forever. You are an amazing beautiful woman. I will always love you and want to keep myself reserved for only you.