Hello, I finally am starting my permanent chastity journey. Its something I have been thinking about for almost 2 years now and I am finally doing it. I've followed up on this reddit and got a lot of advice. I ended uo buying 5 different cages and the best on for me (so I think) is a holy trainer v5 nub (pic in profile). I cam here to ask, obviously the nighttime boners happen and its something I have to work thru, as well as just getting boner in general because it is still fresh for me. My question is, the ring and the cage seem to fit right but when the blood builds up for boner it shifts to the side, its like a lump a little bit to one side of my body and I was wondering if this was normal, or maybe i need to get a tighter ring? I will say, my penis is a little thick so getting it inside the nub is a little hard at times but it definitely works out in the end. I guess my question is, is that normal for this stage? Do i need to size up or down? or will the "lump" cause any damage down the road? There is no pain on my balls, when flaccid everything seems to work perfectly, but when aroused I get this problem. Thank you for your advice.