Genuinely. How? I'm not talking about sizing, or comfort, the physical aspect of the cage. I'm talking about mentally. I think chastity and submission are both really fun and I enjoy both of them, but once I get too horny it's like all of that goes out the window and all I can think about is release. And release I do. I pull out of the cage or find some other work around such as pleasing myself between the bars. I can't seem to control myself no matter how much I try. Horny brain just wants one thing and somehow always overrides everything else to get it.

How do you all overcome this? I'm not really wanting to alter my body with piercings so that's already out of the question. I am just at a loss and feeling kinda discouraged. I want to be able to do this but can't seem to control my urges