Last night my Dom told me that we’re going to attempt Locktober this year. While I do of course think the idea is hot, I’m nervous and a little daunted. I’m used to much shorter sessions, and the longest I’ve ever been abstinent was two weeks (though this was for a medical emergency and not on purpose at all). Typically, I’ll tap out at four or five days, depending.

That said, I understand that going a full month is ambitious, but I’m trying to get myself in a realistic headspace about it, and I’m interested in the chance to see how much I can really take.

I’m just hoping anyone has advice, big or small, about going longer than a week. How to make the time pass quickly, how to deal with the chafing at the base ring, anything and everything is appreciated!