Hi, I hope this is the correct subreddit for my post.

From time to time people suggest that I should get a cage because it would help with my training. I agree with that and find them interesting so I've figured out I'd get one.

Unfortunately do I know not much about the topic and I need your help to get some questions out of the way and get some recommendations.

About my experience: I'm 20 years old and slim. My uncut dick is 15.5cm long and has a circumference of 14cm. I'm a grower so my flaccid dick is way smaller. When I'm hard, my dick is curved upward slightly. I've never worn a cage or anything similar before but i have plenty of bdsm experience though if that helps.

What cage I am looking for: I'm looking for a cage that's made out of metal bars, I find them most appealing visually. The cage also shouldn't have an inbuilt lock. Ideally I want a cage that will be intense to wear during a session but can still be worn for multiple hours comfortably. The cage doesn't have to fit perfectly right away, I'm fine with a little break in time.

My questions: - How do I figure out what size I need? - I'm uncut but from time to time I keep my foreskin pulled back for a few days. Can I do the same when wearing the cage? - Is it a good idea to buy a cage on Amazon? - Do I need to shave for a cage? I'm shaven bare most of the time but I wonder if shaving is necessary for some cages. - Can I sleep with a cage? I sometimes sleep plugged so sleeping with a cage as well should be worth a try, I am not sure about the safety of it though. - Can I wear the cage in public or will it be noticable through my pants? -What cage would you recommend?

Since I highly appreciate that you took the time to write these comments, I thought I could give you a little appreciation. If your comment is the most liked and helpful commentsl, lmk if you want one and I will send you a pic once my new cage arrived :)

Thanks for your help, I'm always open to tips and suggestions!