Since last time, I made some good progress --> I am now writing locked. But how I got here is the most exciting thing.

Some background:

• I’m bi, quite voyeuristic, and very open about my sexuality with my wife. Ideally, I’d love for us to have an open relationship: Would love to swing with her.
• My wife knows my biggest fantasy is watching her with a BBC. We used to have a big, muscular Black neighbor, and I often imagined him in our bedroom. I had a dream about them once and I told her also, but she has never been keen to try it. She has lots of fears (STDs, feelings etc.)
• I tend to be very horny but my wife has a lower libido, which led to my interest in chastity. I feel like it would help me be a better person, husband, dad, and employee, since I struggle with staying focused and waste a lot of time jerking off (sometimes 3-4 times a day for hours!).
• While we’ve talked about locking me up, my wife’s never fully embraced the idea because she feels bad for me.

This morning:

• After returning from a work trip, I accidentally swapped laptops with her and opened hers, only to find she had left "BLACKED with Lena Paul!" on the screen.
• She had no idea it was still open and felt embarrassed when I showed her, but I told her, very seriously, that I’d be jerking off all day because of it.
• We had a good laugh, and before she left for work, I went to my room, put on my cock cage, and gave her the key—locking me up for the day.

Let's see wht happens! Advice for what to do next is welcome! Very exciting times for me!