New to caging. Wife has no idea, currently in a dead bedroom. I'm switch by nature, she is completely submissive so for our time together I've always had to be Dominant. Since our bedroom has died[2 years] I'm 42M, I've found when playing and edging to porn, my submissive side has shown more. Feeling a little pathetic I've decided to cage my little cock. Without a key holder, I've found I give in more easily then I'd like. So this morning as my wife was getting ready for work(I'm off) I decided to lock myself as a little torture not to be able to play today despite hours of alone time...and to make sure I wouldn't give in. I attached the key to her car keys/key chain. She has about 20 keys on there so wouldn't notice. She's basically my key holder without knowing. And not being able to stroke, I'll probably end up teasing and edging using her wand. I love the sensation while being caged. I'm always horny 24/7, and that desire to stroke knowing I can't is unbearable. I want nothing more than to get hard and play, yet can't and that has me throbbing against my cage. Also, buying my cage was a thrill as I went with an x-small and while it's a tight fit, I'm glad I went that small. The look the girl at the counter gave was such a thrill, humiliating and inspiring as the same time. Loved it.