Hello Reddit.Married for over a decade i used to dominate my wife , during our heights of our sex life I would order her to suck a cock blind folded , spread for a stranger or dare her to walk nude across a nudist camp and she would obey.At a swingers club i tied her to the table for all to see her beauty while i fucked other women denying her any pleasure for weeks. I have mostly been a Soft Dom and had no idea about her BDSM fantasies.i never flogged her only sensual teasing and sesory pleasures

I enjoyed sharing her but in the past few years as i aged my stamina has gone down where as she has been insatiable and decided to find a new Dom. Things changed since then.

I found myself submitting to a mistress out of desperation. She one day surprised me with a chastity device which i declined by using the safe word. I am glad that i denied it and i also admired my mistress on handling my rejection well.

I have since been thinking of the chastity device and miss the touch of my mistress in my groin. I have been reading various posts and imagine my wife or my mistress to come and cage me. but i dont get courage to ask.

I am v.confused on how to initiate , initially i wanted my wife to take on 4 cocks , She rides on one and hold on 2 on either side with each hand and one is promptly being sucked. We have not got to that point but lately i imagine being chastised and crave to suck my wifes Doms manhood until he comes. I dont think i will ever be able to share this with them , i am hoping she will read this and make it happen for me...