Hi guys & girls! I've decided to start using a chastity cage on my boyfriend, and I'm looking a. To know any common pitfalls or things I/we should be aware of, and b. Any ideas for fun activities to keep things fresh and interesting.

I've done some research already and think I've got a handle on most of the rough ideas: get a cage that's as snug (ie small) as comfortable to avoid chafing and pinching, us a ring that's as large as possible without being able to back out so that circulation isn't impinged on. Make to release for showers, if I'm feeling strict I could record his supervise or record his showers to make sure everything is "above board". I plan on keeping one key in a box at home, and maybe an additional one in his car, in a box with one of those warranty void stickers on the hinge/lid seam for safety and copying purposes, and keeping one key on me for teasing and unlocking purposes. We already have a few cages we bought a while ago, so we dont need any cage recommendations right now I dont think.

Things I want to know: 1.Are any clothes/underwear more or less comfortable in a cage? 2. I know most people seem to start with short durations and work up to longer times in chastity, but I'm not sure what the time frame should be for that. Ie I lock him for a date night the first time, then maybe for a day while he works from home and unlock him when I come back from work, then what? Another day? A weekend? Jump to a work week locked and unlock for weekend (I'd I can wait that long lol)? How many sessions at each length of time should I do before upping the time length? 3.ideas to keep this interesting and fresh, I'm not exactly worried about the idea of keeping my boyfriends dick locked being boring, and i know the releases will be exciting, but ideas to keep us both engaged (me satisfied and him interested)/ to spice up the time between unlocks would be appreciated, so far I've got the idea to take pictures with the key out and about places I go, and even thought that maybe when we get really into it I can put it in a wallet and leave it in a lost and found at like a restuarant and make him get it if he wants to be released. 4. At what point in sexy time would yall suggest I unlock him when I know I'm going to? Like do I unlock him right away, or keep him locked during the foreplay then unlock him just for the actual penetration part? If that do I tell him ahead when I'm going to unlock him?

Thanks so much for your help!