I've been locked since November 25th and I've only had 3 ruined orgasms since then. Last night I was really hoping for a release since the holidays are over and everyone is back at work or school and we had a few hours to play. About 10 minutes before I clock out, my wife sent me a message letting me know that her period was days early and she was definitely not feeling like playing. Something about the tone of the message made me feel like an apology was coming next. I typed out as quickly as I could "please don't tell me to unlock and take care of it myself". I explained that after all the buildup and teasing, it wouldn't be doing me any favors by just letting me jerk off in the other room. That id rather not cum at all than without her, and I meant it. She responded with a bunch of emojis that made me feel like that genuinely made her very happy and told me "then you're just gonna have to be a patient little slutboi" she's called me a "slutboy" more times than I can count, but never spelled it with an "I" before. By this time I was in my car and instantly melted. I thanked her for keeping me locked up and denied and spent the whole drive home soaking my panties in precum. When I got home I told her that I wanted to have a check in(as you do). I let her know that I honestly appreciate her keeping me locked and reiterated that I didn't want to cum without her. I explained that the best part of this to me was her having absolute control over when, how, and if I'm allowed to touch my cock or cum. She's been with guys in the past that would have gotten angry at being denied like this, and I wanted to be sure she felt comfortable. That she knew that she could even tease me by putting the key in the lock and then change her mind at the last minute and I'd probably still thank her for it. I'm so glad she's getting over the guilt she originally felt when it came to denial.