My keyholder and I have been doing chastity on and off for the last 8 months. The longest I've gone is 25 days, so we are shooting for 30 days.

However, during this time I realized I wanted/needed more attention in regards to edging as being ignored isn't my thing. Also doing this time I've realized I love being "exposed" to other women and being humiliated by them. I'm not above paying for it, but I'm not made of money either.

Where can one go to get this type of attention while edging in a cage long term?

Also, to ensure I don't just give in a cum when I'm not supposed to I'm curious what ideas other have done or heard for punishments for long term remote chastity? If I know what the punishment is, and it isn't a funishment, I'm more likely to follow the rules of my chastity than be tempted to break it and accept the consequences.

Hope these questions are clear enough, and thank you for reading/responding.