My (25M) Gf (25F) has recently agreed to be my keyholder. She's not very confident about doing it but said she'd trial it for 6 months. We've been together for nearly 8 years but over the past 2 She's become more self conscious leading to her to be less comfortable talking about sex and us having sex less frequently (only about once or twice per month). Part of why I wanted to try chastity with her is to possibly restore some of her confidence or at least build more intimacy between us.

Since giving her my key a little less than a week ago She's only really teased me or mentioned chastity twice by saying two things to me (she called me a "good boy" once and told me "she was so proud of me for going all day at work in my cage" once as well). And otherwise nothing sexual at all.

I know that I really shouldn't be the one bringing up my chastity to her but it's new and exciting and sometimes I can't help it. The two teases I got from her were when I brought it up though and I'm worried that without me bringing it up she'd never acknowledge it at all.

I know it's only been less than a week but I can't help but feel neglected rather than actively denied which has led to me trying to gain sexual gratification from porn (cage still stays on and no cumming). If this becomes the norm should I just tell her I don't want her to be my keyholder anymore or should I just try to gain gratification by making her happy doing a lot of non-sexual things with her that she likes (she told me doing couple type things like building a gingerbread house would be intimate for her) and just telling myself that she's actively denying me?