.long story short, relationship isn’t great. Trying to find tools to help us back on track. There is a lot good about chastity, but there is also a pretty big trust gap, which makes for a lot of clumsy start stop. Which overall tarnishes the tool.

How do folks handle practical challenges, whet the cage is meant to be a sexual submission, but carries into more “serious “ topics?

Do people take a break? Is it an intentional timeout? Do you go right back in after an argument?

Not looking for “do what she says” type of answer. That is not our dynamic. More of a “know what is fun and don’t let it get in the way of what is important” type Of practical advice.