Want to get some of your perspective on my unique(maybe?) situation. It's a little lengthy.

My wife is super competitive at times and always trying to beat me at bets, tasks, amount of water we drink during the day, whatever. A few months back we were having sex and she stopped and said, let's make a bet. So I pull out, and ask ok what's the bet and what will I win? After a quick chuckle, she bet me that she could make me orgasm first. Obviously I said absolutely no way, what do I get if I make her cum first? She said, if you win, you can fuck my ass every day for a week, zero complaining. If you lose, then I get to lock your dick in a cock cage for 24 hours, with no notice. I was a bit surprised because we didn't even own a cage, but so confident I would win I said ok and we started back at it. At some point, I don't even know how, she pushed me off her and started sucking me off. She won.

Fast forward about a week, and I have a bachelor party for a work buddy. We're going to a few bars and staying at his place in the city overnight. Right before I leave, my wife comes to me and says drop your pants and gets on her knees. All right!! She's about to suck me off before I leave. I drop my pants, sit down on the couch, and relax my head back. She asks what I'm doing, and pulls out a metal chastity cage. My heart drops from my chest. It's happening. She pulls out a jar of Vaseline and lube, and has the cage on my before it all even processed. She stood up, said to have fun, and see you tomorrow.

It felt like a basketball in my pants, it felt like it was so obvious that everyone would know. I was pissed because this was right before the bachelor party, what bad timing. Though I guess that was her point. The ultimate punishment for the loser. After a few(a lot) of drinks, I basically forgot it was there. Woke up a few times in the night but was pretty drunk so I'm sure that helped.

I come home next day, frustrated, and tell her it's been long enough and to unlock me. She says she will unlock me before the 24 hours if I eat her out. Ok fine, so I bury my head between her legs for 30 minutes until she cums. I notice the whole time that I'm trying to get hard but the cage is squeezing my cock and balls. I'm enjoying this. I'm enjoying her controlling me. And my cock is dripping. How?

I kept asking to be let out, especially after the 24 hours ended. At first it was, oh I forgot the key at work. Oh honey, I don't have time right now. Oh just a little bit longer. After a while I was just horny all the time and would do literally anything she asked.

Two weeks in she gave me one of her butt plugs. Said it would feel good since I haven't touched my cock in 2 weeks. I was so desperate, I lubed it up and slid it in. It wasn't too big, but man did I feel full. And it felt good. It felt really good. Around 4 weeks in, I was wearing the plug more often, I barely noticed the cage except for the constant leaking of pre-cum.

Around week 5 she said she ordered us a new "toy" to play with together. I figured a vibrator for the cage but no. She pulls out a black strap-on. Like, big big. I tell her no way in hell. She said, I guess I never wanted to get unlock again and that I should listen to her if I ever wanted to.

That night, she used it. For hours. And I loved it. I loved every second of her pounding me while my cock was locked up, just swinging back and forth, and just leaking non-stop. Right around 6 weeks, I came from her pegging me and now I cum every single time she does. And it's literally the best orgasm of my life. Every. Single. Time.

Turns out she was never planning on letting me out after 24 hours because it's been about 2 months of being locked 24/7. She said she knew she would enjoy it, but not nearly this much. She loves that I please her at any moment, and that I haven't touched my dick in so long. And that she doesn't really feel bad because I can cum by getting fucked like a bitch(her words, not mine).

To be honest, I love getting pegged and have a love/hate being caged. She said at this point she didn't even remember where the key is. Thinking about it right now, makes me try to get hard. I'm dripping pre-cum right now.

Can this chastity cage really effect me this much? Should I be concerned to be locked up long term? Where should this go from here?

Edit: Spelling because I'm so horny I can barely think