Our story is like many others on this sub - the ones that I never believed were true - until it happened to me.  I have been fantasizing about being locked in chastity since the days of the CB-6000.  I had always been a self-locker and never seriously considered telling my wife or asking her to be my keyholder.  She is a beautiful, sweet and innocent woman without a mean bone in her body.  I also feared that she would view me as some sort of "sexual deviant".  I know it was completely wrong of me to hide that from my wife and we are working to come to terms with it.  We have been together for over 10 years.  We had a healthy sex life and even dabbled with a little bondage here and there, but she was the one that I was tying up.  If I knew we would not be having sex, I would lock myself up and put the key in a timed lockbox.  I never made it past a couple of days at the most.  In my fantasies it was my wife holding the key, but I figured that was just going to remain a fantasy.  I did not believe she had it in her to deny me, and I also wasn't sure that even if she agreed to do it, that I would be able to turn over the key and give all control over to her.  

Fast forward to a couple of months ago.  I won't get into details, but she found out about my chastity fetish.  Like most women who are not familiar with chastity, she was a little taken aback at first, and frankly a little hurt that I had never even brought it up to her (and rightfully so).  To my surprise, however, she was very interested in it and wanted to learn more.  I got her the book "Male Chastity:  A Guide for Keyholders", by Lucy Fairbourne.  Upon finishing the book (which is very short), she asked me to turn over my keys.  She now wears one around her neck, and the other is the emergency key.  For the first time in my life, I really am unable to masturbate, have sex, or even get an erection, without my wife's permission.  It is a scary yet exhilarating feeling.   We don't have any set timelines - it is completely up to her as to if and when I am unlocked or allowed an orgasm.  

As for my wife, it turns out she is a natural in all the best ways.  She still doesn't have a mean bone in her smoking hot body, but she has mastered the "art of the tease", and loves to keep me frustrated.  Since our journey began 22 days ago, I have been allowed a total of 4 orgasms.  The longest time I spent without an orgasm is 13 days, and my longest period of lockup (other than cleaning) is 14 days.  If you had told me I would only get to have 4 orgasms in 22 days, I would have told you that was impossible, or very miserable.  On the contrary, we have spent more time naked together in the past 3 weeks than I think we ever have.  My wife has become significantly more confident and demanding of me.  She doesn't orgasm easily, but on most days she will have at least one or two, provided mainly by yours truly.  Toys, hands, strap-ons, sleeves, and then some - we've got them all, and I use my full arsenal to bring pleasure to my Goddess.  We have never been closer as a couple, both inside and outside the bedroom.

I know that for many of you 13 days is nothing, but I'm a guy that would jerk off to pictures and videos of guys being locked up and denied by their keyholders pretty regularly.  Now I'm the one locked up and my wife/Goddess/keyholder is turned on by the fact that other guys will be jerking off to her, while I am kept in denial.