My GF presently has me locked up and while it was my idea, she has loved the idea, the extra attention and the focus on her. It has made me super attentive to her needs and I love where this could go. However, she does not seem to buy into this like I expected. She never teases me verbally or physically and once in a while just lets me out for sex. In fact, she often forgets that I am locked and then gets a little upset with herself when she forgets.

I guess that if she joked about it or told me that her plan was to lock me and forget me or if she told me that there would be no teasing, only denial, that would be super hot, but this way seems like a let down in a way.

Maybe she is just learning right now, but I wanted to see if anyone else has experienced something like this. Regardless, I want to give her as much time as she needs to figure this out and I don't want to top from the bottom. Any advice would be appreciated.