Hello! You can call me "Floop".

I've been pretty heavily involved with foot stuff since I was in the 7th grade.

I remember how exciting it was when the foot community was thundering away on Kik, before findom was popular online. Just a bunch of quirky young dudes trying to discover their sexualities, sharing pictures, etc. But the community didn't really progress much from there, and the overt sexual nature of such communities led to pretty aggressive crackdowns by most social media groups. Whether that was for the best or not is debatable, but it left the community without any real nucleus.

After a while, constant online sex just gets less exciting. People want to have real life experiences too.

Making the transition can be pretty hard, going from instant gratification to cleaning up and dressing nicely, just for the low probability shot that the guy you have brought out on a date is going to be okay with your fetish. Try as they might to be polite, you can usually see through their attempts to let go of you gracefully.

There are plenty of things you can do to shift the psychological atmosphere of a date from "creepy and desperate" to "eccentric and fun megachadery". Working out regularly to build up your greek god bod, developing your passions and hobbies to make you a more interesting and nuanced person, improving your career and educational background, etc. While I struggle with many of these, I know they're the best way to foot fetish bliss: an evening with a pair of soles that actually want to be there without money involved. I hope that together, as a community, we can rally to help make meaningful change for us and our foot friends.