Hello there :) how are you? You can call me , I am 20 years old and located in Boston, Massachusetts. I am looking for an in person dynamic, FWB relationship or fun experiences. I am writing this post more in the form of looking for a relationship, but I am happy either way! I am 6”4 and I weigh about 230 pounds (think linebacker/rugby build). I have dark brown hair and hazel eyes. I am white with a slight tan. I stay active and am in pretty decent shape. I don’t have any fat on me except for a little bit in my stomach so you could say I have a bit of a dad body if you are into that. Speaking of, I have been working out for a bit now and am trying to get rid of that belly. It’s been going well, so much so I am seeing improvement. On the plus side of that, it means I am bulking up now!

What brings me to Boston? I am actually a first year student at Northeastern University here in Boston to do a dual degree masters in international business management program. I also am currently running 2 of my own businesses.

My Interests include outdoor: Biking, Hiking, Kayaking, boating, sailing, running, swimming, just about anything outdoors really. My Other interests include: Mechanical work on cars, watch Making, watch collecting, music (everything but metal or hard rock), I am a big audiophile :)

I am a very care free person. I am a calm and reasonable and I am emotionally stable. I don’t have a history of health problems or mental health issues. I dress nicely and I don’t have any tattoos or piercings. I am more of an outgoing, extroverted and confident person, I have been called a very thoughtful and caring person.

I am looking for someone between the ages of 18 and 26. I could go higher, but that depends on you as a person and if our lifestyles would work well together. I don’t have a TON of musts and preferences in someone, but here they are.

I want someone who has a plan for their life, you don’t have to have it all planned out, or even know what that is as long as you know you will have a plan. Aside from that, I just ask that you are, like me, in decent physical shape.

Here is Kinky me

Please do not let my age make you think that I am not prepared, mature enough or have the experience to be looking for something like this. I have had to mature much quicker for much longer than anyone in our age range. I am very stable emotionally and mentally. I have experience in dynamics, especially 24/7 dynamics. I have been in 24/7 dynamics for a while now and I have been learning of BDSM for even longer.

Here are some kinks I like and enjoy.

CNC, TPE, anal, free use, orgasm control, sleep play, denial, humiliation, watersports, bondage, deepthroat, breath play, predicament bondage, overall really rough sex, spitting, praise, worship, Cockwarming, i LOVE temperature play. I have a big oral kink, DDLG, collaring, praise, worship, objectification, impact play!, pain. None of these are musts at all.

My preferred dynamic would be a 24/7 Dom/Sub or Master/Slave dynamic.

We will have to work through busy college and beginning career life and I’m 100% in for the ride if you are. I do understand the amount of time and trust that needs to be built up before engaging in anything and I’m more than happy to wait and go at your own pase. I am a firm believer that the sub has all the control and I have to have a safe word for you and me. I do need aftercare as a must and I will give any aftercare that you require. I absolutely MUST have have open and truthful communication. I understand this may be hard for some and I am more than happy to help work through it together if it comes up. I do not play emotional or petty games with people. We are all adults here. Consent is most important to me. I will never do anything you do not want me to unless you consent to it. I expect the same in return. I understand we all have issues and things in the past. If you have any mental health issues, I have no problem with it as long as you are open about it. My partners pleasure is also highly important to me. Unless you do not want it to be a focus of mine, I will make sure that it is.

Ideally this dynamic will be a combination of service submission and pleasure submission. If I had to pick between the two, I would prefer pleasure submission. Service is not a must as my current lifestyle does not require much service, but that can change. I am also looking for free use. I also really enjoy training so you would be trained at some point. There will be rules and tasks that we can talk about. I don’t have many that I use all the time, rather I like to tailor them to the dynamic, your love and my life as well. This is all negotiable and there are many more things to add into this through conversation. I do enjoy anal as one of my top kinks so that and free use are deal breakers (I know, I’m sorry. It’s a hard decision for me to make too). I do believe in trying out for the experience the things that I do to someone so that I know what it’s like for them. Submission is a wonderful, beautiful gift to receive that must cherished, earned and that trust me be protected to never be broken. Everything is negotiable with me so please don’t be afraid to reach out.

I do highly regard the happiness, health/mental health of my partner and communication as #1.

Congrats on making it this far!! I know that was a lot to read, but I truly thank you for taking the time to read this. I can’t wait to hear from you!