Hi everyone. I've been here a couple of times looking for someone. I'm sure that everyone on here can relate to the struggle of finding someone they "click" with. I find that I have a hard time finding people I mesh with because I don't list fully what I'm looking for. So this time im going to be really transparent with what I'm looking for. Maybe I'll find someone who resonates with what I write here today.

I'll summarize what I wrote below for anybody who doesn't feel like reading my book. I'm a nerdy gaming daddy dom that's looking for a relationship that's real.

Im going to write what im looking for in descending order of how important these things are for me. 1 being the most important and 5 being the least important.

1) i'm looking for someone that I can spend SFW time with. I want to be able to spend my time with you. Doing fun things that we both enjoy. I'd really really love to be able to play games together. I think this could be the key to finding a long lasting relationship. I've never been able to share playing games with someone before. It's a big part of how I spend my free time. I would also like to do movies nights, watch "our" show together stuff like that.

2)Id like to know that you are invested in trying to make a relationship work. By that I mean I hope that you want to learn things about me just as much I want to know things about you. Even doing things like randomly texting throughout the day asking how my day is a big thing for me. It shows you're interested.

3) I would like to find someone that enjoys kink, sex and talking about it. I'm not looking for sex right away. I'd really like to get to know you before anything like that happens. I would however wish to discuss kinks early on just so there are no weird surprises later. I'm happy to discuss kinks in full.

4) physical attraction. Now this is important to a degree. I however feel that im more attracted to personality. This might sound like a cliché but honestly if you're a nerdy gamer that wants to spend time with me doing sfw and nsfw things together that's way more important then your weight/height/skin color or whatever.

Now if you're still here reading I'm just going to put that I play games on Xbox, PC, and recently I bought a switch so that too. I'd love to hear about whatever you're playing atm.

My daddy style would probably be described as being on the softer side. I like making my little happy when I can. Btw I say little but middles or subs/pets are also A-ok with me. Rules and tasks can be discussed if that's something you're looking for. Quality time is pretty important to me so hopefully we can spend a good amount of time together.

Ok, I'm gonna wrap this up now. I'd like to thank anyone who actually read the the whole post. I'd love to hear from you if you think we might click.