Things about me:

Im demisexual: i would like to not be in a relationship that is built on sex. I have severe sexual trauma and woukd like someone that won't pressure me into sex or to have it often. I can only have it IF my partner is patient and i feel loved and taken care of and if I trust my partner and is comfortable with them and know them. And please do not just be nice to me just to get sex. I want someone that will love me for me and not what i can provide.

Im creative: i crochet, garden, draw digitally and traditionally, read, and play video games(Animal Crossing, Sonic, Mario, Pokemon)

Im a pastelly: i absolutely love the cute aesthetic, i have a few outfits that fit the pink cute aesthetic.

Im pro choice: I would prefer my partner to be pro choice as well. Just to make sure my safety is taken into account.

Im spiritual(crystals,tarot, psychic gifts) : i would prefer my partner to not be religious(christian, catholic, etc) again for safety purposes and im very passionate about it.

My little side: I'm very clingy in littlespace. Sexual things in littlespace and bdsm are a big no no. My littlespace is solely for coping with trauma and is my safe space. Therefore i would not like a daddy dom only a cargiver that wants to take care of his little in littlespace and is gentle with her and doesn't like or doesn't require painful punishments and orders in the dynamic please. I would like a cargiver thats nurturing and is obssessed with cuddles lol and comforting in times that i may be sad or having a rough time.

Things about you:

Your 20-27

You either live in cali or in neighboring states and plan to meet in person if things were to get serious

Your kind, sweet, and exhibit golden retreiever energy

If you also have taken the mbti personality test and have either ENTP or ENFJ personality type then we may mesh really well together hehe☺ If you dont know your personality type it can be eye opening and informative to take one to learn more about yourself

Your either demisexual or respect your partner may not want sex all the time. And you value quality time together over the act itself

Tell me about yourself: ive had to tell guys about myself so much its exhausting. Of course im gonna still do it otherwise we would be complete strangers to eachother. The exhausting part is when they dont say much about themselves. I have to yank information about them from them and it shouldnt be that way.

Please tell me about yourself so your not a complete stranger to me otherwise of course we are not gonna connect. I dont want to be the only one putting in work so your gonna have to put in work too please cuz again its exhausting😩

You like alt/pastel fashion

Your romatic: im kinda cliche but i love romantic gestures. Probably because a guy has never done them for me 💔 i wish i had someone that does the cute stuff the couples do on tik tok for eachother

Your emotionally available: i talked to guys that will come to me when they were down but when i needed them they would be not around. Please be present and available!!! I have feelings too and would like for them to be taken into consideration to.

Also when things get hard dont just leave. As a couple is supposed to be able to lean on eachother when times like this happen. Ive ran into people that find one minor inconvienece and just decides to end it all. And honestly its made my anxiety so bad if i do find out they are struggling with anything because i feel like theyll just leave and it makes me sad.